October ’16

Ah! These last two months have been tough especially with the unstable situation on campus. There was so much to do in so little time, so much fear, so much trauma but hey! I am alive and only four days late to write about my thankings (last month I was the whole 31 days late).…

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June ’16

I remember when knowing the number of days each month has was like how knowing each brick position is now…We would hold out a fist and sijui 31 would be the mountains and 30 would be the valleys with February’s exception…then came the song “Thirty days have September, April, June and November…” Just sang that…

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Home

“I am homesick for a place I am not sure even exists. One where my heart is full. My body loved. And my soul understood.” ― Unknown. I am sure this place exists and I am so grateful to God because I am finding home. Here in this fresh beddings that I had cleaned at…

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You men…

You men who ask “how are you?” without any ulterior motives… You men who give positive feedback with no expectations… You men who I can deeply know yet not feel obliged to be in a relationship with… You men who don’t think twice about gender equality… You men who offer good customer service because that’s…

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Sssh!

Sssh!  No one wants you raw No one wants you all messed up and confused No one wants you broken No one wants you speaking They need you proper They need you quiet and happy They need you sure of yourself They need you passionate and optimistic and unbroken When you are all raw and…

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African Infused

“Culture isn’t static even what your grand parents practise is very different from what their great great grandparents did. Now the upside of this is that you get to choose which elements to pick and which to let go of.” In this season of my life culture has been one of my greatest struggles. Questions…

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Give me faith…

“Nothing which is true or beautiful or good makes complete sense in any immediate context of history; therefore we must be saved by faith. Nothing that is worth doing can be achieved in our lifetime; therefore we must be saved by hope. Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore we must be…

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Fear.Less

I feared he would think I was stupid I feared she would be unkind I feared it would be too dangerous I feared she wouldnt love me anymore I feared I would die I feared I wouldn’t meet her expectations I feared I would be scorned I feared I would fail I feared it would…

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Maybe mummy was right…

Promise me, O women of Jerusalem, not to awaken love until the time is right. (‭Song of Songs‬ ‭8‬:‭4‬ NLT) Aah! There’s something about being in love…I have been in love twice and there is nothing I have ever felt so strongly. I felt like I could literally die for the person. Hours were spent describing…

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