Only now

“You only have now. Tomorrow doesn’t care about you, and it’s pretty ordinary. Yesterday stopped existing and yet we ignore the only true moment we live in planning for what could be. You only have what you have, love that and live with that!” Profoundness!

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Make your shoes

Dearest T-Noy, They will tell you you have big shoes to fill. That your big sister did this and this and that and sometimes it will scare you and sometimes it will encourage you. I know because for a long time my life was about filling big shoes. I wanted to fill the big shoes of…

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African Infused

“Culture isn’t static even what your grand parents practise is very different from what their great great grandparents did. Now the upside of this is that you get to choose which elements to pick and which to let go of.” In this season of my life culture has been one of my greatest struggles. Questions…

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Fear.Less

I feared he would think I was stupid I feared she would be unkind I feared it would be too dangerous I feared she wouldnt love me anymore I feared I would die I feared I wouldn’t meet her expectations I feared I would be scorned I feared I would fail I feared it would…

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